Jonathan Arnold reviewed Men We Reaped by Jesmyn Ward
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4 stars
Wow, what a tough read, especially for a middle aged (ugh!) white American male. I started reading this memoir of growing up Black in Mississippi, then I made the mistake of watching Tales of the Grim Sleeper, then I went back and finished the book and both got me so depressed. I don't know how Black America gets by. Honestly, I don't.
This book wasn't really so much about direct racism. I mean, there was plenty in it, like how she was treated at her nearly all white private school. And about the endemic racism built into the educational system, where everyone just figure Black males were hopeless cases and couldn't seem to wait until they pushed them out of the schools.
But the depressing, grinding, cycle of poverty was pervasive, even if Jesmyn herself seems to have found a way out. Certainly more the exception than the rule. …
Wow, what a tough read, especially for a middle aged (ugh!) white American male. I started reading this memoir of growing up Black in Mississippi, then I made the mistake of watching Tales of the Grim Sleeper, then I went back and finished the book and both got me so depressed. I don't know how Black America gets by. Honestly, I don't.
This book wasn't really so much about direct racism. I mean, there was plenty in it, like how she was treated at her nearly all white private school. And about the endemic racism built into the educational system, where everyone just figure Black males were hopeless cases and couldn't seem to wait until they pushed them out of the schools.
But the depressing, grinding, cycle of poverty was pervasive, even if Jesmyn herself seems to have found a way out. Certainly more the exception than the rule. This book is heart wrenching in its deep emotional writing about the Black men in her family and friends who just were erased. And the grinding reality that the women in her life felt and lived through. Unfortunately, no answers. And this was written 5 years ago and even then, boats paraded along a segregated picnic ground, proudly displaying their Confederate flags. I can't even begin to imagine how much worse it is now.
So very very sad. And unnecessary, if anyone in power gave a damn.