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Live in Tamaki Makaurau/Auckland, Aotearoa/NZ.

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Feinberg, David B.: Eighty-sixed (2002, Grove Press)

In 1980, B. J. Rosenthal's only mission is to find himself a boyfriend and avoid …

Review of 'Eighty-sixed' on 'Goodreads'

It took me a long time to read this book; what do I, gay and living in NZ, have in common with the main character, gay, living in NYC, during the early years of the AIDS crisis? I'm glad I persevered. The main similarity is the fact that we both lived during a time when AIDS is ever present - BJ, the character, unfortunately though during the early years, and myself, much much later.

The book is structured over a calendar year, and we see the life of BJ as a gay man in the NYC gay community. There's the large network of friends, lovers and ex-lovers. There's work. Family. His therapist. We see BJ chat with friends, boyfriends and ex-boyfriends, as slowly the spectre of AIDS looms over him. This is in the time when there were no easy HIV tests, so every swollen gland, every cough leads to …

Yuval Noah Harari: 21 Lessons for the 21st Century (2018, Spiegel & Grau)

In Sapiens, he explored our past. In Homo Deus, he looked to our future. Now, …

Review of '21 Lessons for the 21st Century' on 'Goodreads'

This book has very solid bones, and it is a great read.

But there's some weak parts, and in some parts things aren't quite correct. For instance, in one chapter the author claims 'cultural factors' are outside of our control. Excuse me; #metoo, #BLM, the rise in the use of Te Reo Maori where I live (NZ), and the fact that the author can live as an openly gay man are all examples of cultural factors which are within our control.

There's a few examples of weak arguments, but these don't detract. They merely annoy.

Otherwise, this is a good book and recommended.

Rich Cohen: The Avengers (Paperback, 2001, Vintage)

Review of 'The Avengers' on 'Goodreads'

I really enjoyed this book.

The author skilfully uncovers a piece of Jewish history from the Shoah that is remarkable. He writes well, and evocatively, blending a barely hinted at love story with political machinations.

Recommended.

Alan Downs: The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man's World

Review of "The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man's World" on 'Goodreads'

I live in NZ. On an island. With a small population. So there's no endless cities I can flee to, no job hopping, no endless line of men to sleep with. Which contrasts rather dramatically with Mr Downs very Southern Californian and American worldview that permeates through the first two thirds of this book.

Despite that, Mr Downs fortunately leaves enough material for me to hang my particular circumstances on; I had to do some mental aerobics but I found that his perspectives did apply, a little roughly, to my circumstances. Roughly.

But I think his insights are invaluable, because they apply to gay men, a subject area that receives little consideration. I found his arguments persuasive. I found the later half of the book applied to me, much more than the first half. I found overall, his book to be helpful.

Frédéric Martel: Global Gay (Hardcover, 2018, The MIT Press)

Review of 'Global Gay' on 'Goodreads'

This is a great book. I read it over a long weekend.

Mr Martel covers a great deal of physical territory, over a period of time, and what emerges is a considered and thoughtful observation of gays worldwide. Lesbians aren't the focus here, but I suspect Mr Martel's 'gay' could cover lesbians as well in some respects, such is his observations.

I came away from the book more committed to supporting gays and lesbians in places where there is repression and homophobia. Indeed Mr Martel observes that the US hasn't exported homosexuality as some leaders think - it's exported homophobia.

The book offers a great insight for me as a gay man as to what is happening to gays elsewhere in the world, lifting my eyes up from my local situation. It makes me hopeful that somewhere, some young gay is currently lip syncing to Lady Gaga's "Born This Way" …