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header: intricate pixelly-looking maze, shaded so it looks a bit like a map (source: https://www.flickr.com/photos/84737370@N02/7766685506)
avatar: picrew-generated image of a white woman with glasses and short hair with flowers in it (source: https://picrew.me/image_maker/114808). her neck and part of her face are obscured by a giant crooked-fanged grin that stretches far beyond her head, courtesy of rabbithearth@weirder.earth
following thoughts
sorting thru my follow requests like:
at this point in my fedi life, I'm no longer interested in being followed by people who aren't willing to share anything about themselves. yeah I sometimes share good content that everyone should see! but no I don't want to be silently surveilled. so if you don't want to say things about your thoughts, experiences and/or self, you can catch my content when someone else boosts it.
(that doesn't mean you can't start by lurking! I started by lurking. I think it's a fine way to begin. it just means, until you reveal something of yourself, we're not going to follow each other.)
oops that third paragraph should say "I have nearly 5 yards (15 feet) of fuzzy yarn snake"
grumping about a crochet thing
I've been making a knot pillow: crocheting a giant tube which I will tie into a fancy knot. I bought a pattern, b/c I am not able to figure these things out on my own yet
the pattern said I'd need 437 yards of super bulky. okay, I bought 2 skeins (220 yds ea). it also said I'd end up with a tube of about 5 yards (15 ft).
I used up both skeins and only had 10 ft. I bought another skein and kept going. now I have nearly 5 yds (10 ft) of fuzzy yarn snake. but I tried tying the knot, and I have nowhere near enough length for it. not even close. like I'm maybe at 60-70%?
if I look closely, I can tell that my tube diameter is just a lil bit larger than that of the pattern writer. close, but not quite the same. so I guess that's part of what happened. but I still think their numbers were off! also a gauge would've helped a lot
anyway. at this point I think I'm just gonna make a simpler knot and call it a day. ugh can one project go as planned please
@maya My site was mostly stolen from a bunch of old government publications. https://wintermute.org/
Mutual aid for a trans woman of color, desperate, urgent
paypal: margaridamariabruxa@gmail.com
gofund.me/bc81e48b
"Hey everyone, my name is Maria. I'm a trans woman of color and I'm in a really urgent financial survival situation. I've been a survival SW for over 10 years but I really can't do it anymore. My mental health is at a dangerously low point and I don't have a support system irl. I make music and I'm trying to find a way to make money out of my it but in the mean time I'm extremely struggling to survive on the basics: rent, meds and food. I'm in a really desperate situation. I really need help with these basic survival costs so I can get back on my feet and try to push through. Any help given is a massive blessing. Please share if you can and thank you all for reading."
It's the fourth time I've listened through this since Monday hahaha
"A Selection of Soul, Disco & Jazz Fusion with Afro Alternative"
So the best thing to me is when you get to the end of a necessary ordeal (eg dentist, operation, miserable chore etc) and someone says "That was a lot, but you did *really* well."
I know that all it means is I didn't make a fuss or complain during the thing, that I just survived it.
I know the reason I don't make a fuss during crappy times is because of traumic conditioning.
All the same, I fucking love that acknowledgement. Yes, it was a lot, and yeah I did do really well. Thanks so much!
Hey folks, the editor who worked with me on my book "Supervillainz" has been donating his time to underserved queer authors and needs some financial help!
Tony Amato fucking rocks! Please give him a hand.
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Hi pachyderms, it's your neighborhood Black disabled enby and I'm halfway to my April goal and we really need food! 150/300
Cashapp/Venmo: spooniewolf
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Digital
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Prints
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Question If You Understand About Trees
Every Spring, our past-a-decade-old Eastern Redbud tree puts out a small amount of nice blooms followed by leaves. But the majority of it remains dead/dormant and never grows anything.
I blame the bad transplant job a supposed pro did on it 10 years back, when it was still only about 1"/1 Meter tall. Now it's quite large & I doubt it could be moved again. Anything I can do for it to encourage more growth/better health? Thanks. (& you can boost of course)
Learning a common USian food/plant term is a nasty slur
Yesterday, I had the pleasure of meeting a gorgeous lime tree, Citrus hystrix (hystrix is latin for porcupine - it's a thorny lil friend) https://www.missouribotanicalgarden.org/PlantFinder/PlantFinderDetails.aspx?taxonid=291778
Sadly, the name I was taught for this, which I learned in the context of leaves used in Thai cooking, is super derogatory. The K-word comes up readily in web sites about this plant as an ingredient, which shows me that I'm not alone in my ignorance.
I wanted to share this, in my belief that delicious food is more delicious when appreciating the beauty of the plants we eat, and plants are incredibly cool and worth celebrating, and that porcupines also are awesome. (And like, food and plants and people being called slurs is NOT COOL) The tree and lime are now being called Thai Lime or Makrut Lime (place name) but I invite you to join me in privately thinking of it as the porcupine lime (although I'm open to "brain lime" since the fruits totally look like wrinkly green brains.) https://www.gardenia.net/plant/citrus-hystrix
please help my friend Evel! xen is #Indigenous, #trans, #disabled, exhausted, and has a family to support. xen is fundraising for their monthly bills and housing. anything helps! more monthly subscribers would really help xen's anxiety!
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Wore ship and braced around. Now enjoying the quiet moonlight on the last lookout of this night watch.
I'm starting to gear up for this year's big annual Gender Census survey, which means I'll probably be hitting the "collect donations" button on Patreon in the next few days.
Head over to https://www.patreon.com/gendercensus and check that you're happy with your pledge, or add a pledge if you're into that kind of thing!
Bollywood, violently Islamophobic, anti-Pakistan propaganda.
It's Fighter (2024).
I don't even know where to start.
Was it that a few of my extended Indian-Canadian family thought it would be okay to recommend this garbage for us to watch?
Probably.
It's totally not surprising seeing this level of hatred and bigotry coming out of Modi-India.
I guess I'm just disappointed that my own family didn't have the awareness to recognize it for what it is and say, hey you know what this film isn't worth watching. It's hateful and hurtful and we think you should stay away from it.
Anyway, if someone recommends this film, do yourself a favor and don't waste two and a half hours of your life you'll never get back.
Israel, Updates, Lebanon, Politics, Genocide, Thread, Changing CWs
This will be a thread of the latest stuff happening with Israel and various other countries. Please be advised that the CW will change depending on actions / words spoken. Focusing first on Lebanon.
Israel uses white phosphorus on Al Khiyam in populated areas (today). That directly poisons Lebanon's soil.
Israel has also killed a Hezbollah leader via drone strike. Tension is high as Hezbollah launched drones at a military facility in Israel, injuring 14 soliders and killing 3. (Past few days to today)
Lebanon neither welcomes or denounces the strike Iran did on Israel as retaliation for Israel's strike on Iran's embassy.
I have yet to see Israel state genocidal intent towards Lebanon. I have seen some statements like that for Iran though (next focus)
A maze of twisty little passages, all alike: a white cis Gen X woman who loves games, stories, and making things slowly. Living and working on an egalitarian commune in the eastern US.
Black Lives Matter. Reparations and Land Back. Trans Rights are Human Rights. From the river to the sea, may Palestine be free.