Heather reviewed The Trouble with Hating You by Sajni Patel
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4 stars
I'm not a big fan of the hate-to-love trope in romance novels. You can see where this one is going just based on the synopsis. The families try to set them up, they don't want that, and then they end up liking each other after fighting for a while at work. You almost don't even need to read the book.But this book is a lot deeper than it would appear to be. Liya has been rebellous since she was a teenager and has been shunned by members of her religiously conservative community. Her estrangement from her family just gives the aunties more to gossip about. No one knows or care to find out what trauma is behind her actions.Jay works hard to be the perfect son. However, his devotion to his family is also born out of trauma. Each of these characters are responding to severe circumstances in their lives …
I'm not a big fan of the hate-to-love trope in romance novels. You can see where this one is going just based on the synopsis. The families try to set them up, they don't want that, and then they end up liking each other after fighting for a while at work. You almost don't even need to read the book.But this book is a lot deeper than it would appear to be. Liya has been rebellous since she was a teenager and has been shunned by members of her religiously conservative community. Her estrangement from her family just gives the aunties more to gossip about. No one knows or care to find out what trauma is behind her actions.Jay works hard to be the perfect son. However, his devotion to his family is also born out of trauma. Each of these characters are responding to severe circumstances in their lives in the ways that make sense to them.These characters move slowly towards each other as they figure out what they have in common. Each of them need to learn less self-destructive ways of thinking about the world in order to let people get close to them. I like that they evolved from antagonistic strangers to reluctant allies to friends to lovers instead of straight from hate to love. I always find that pretty unrealistic. The supportive characters are very well done. There are characters who could have very easily fallen back into stereotypes but each of them grow and surprise the reader through the course of the book. I'm looking forward to reading more from this author. TW for domestic abuse, sexual assault, traumatic death. This review was originally posted on Based On A True Story