Let Them Theory

手把手教你课题分离，[b:The Courage to Be Disliked: How to Free Yourself, Change your Life and Achieve Real Happiness|43306206|The Courage to Be Disliked How to Free Yourself, Change your Life and Achieve Real Happiness|Ichiro Kishimi|https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/books/1545421684l/43306206.SY75.jpg|27565183]讲述观点，这本书更实操， 每章结尾都有问题， 真相，解决方案，偏更基础的self-help。实操以爱情为主，作者官网还有亲子和团队合作。melrobbins.com/work melrobbins.com/parenting
同时展示[b:The Midnight Library|52578297|The Midnight Library|Matt Haig|https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/books/1602190253l/52578297.SY75.jpg|74043794]的中心思想，you hold the power. 同时在看[b:The Age of Choice: A History of Freedom in Modern Life|213878918|The Age of Choice A History of Freedom in Modern Life|Sophia Rosenfeld|https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/books/1721685139l/213878918.SY75.jpg|220137939]， 这本书被书友评价不够学术，没有引用，除了paraphrase厉害的人，就只有一段作者的心理咨询师的引用。反观[b:The Age of Choice: A History of Freedom in Modern Life|213878918|The Age of Choice A History of Freedom in Modern Life|Sophia Rosenfeld|https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/books/1721685139l/213878918.SY75.jpg|220137939]，每个章节的footnote就够我看了，主打self-help，专业性不高。

This is really a philosophy book. A modern well written eye catching book. It aligns with Buddhism and Stoicism, and as 2000+ year old philosophies, you know it's going to work.

She starts off with her 5 second rule for reactions/responses. Then brings in the Let Them Theory, which is essentially the topic that you can't control other people, so let them do whatever and don't worry. She then gets into Let Me, which is where you align, push, motivate yourself to get stuff done.

Lots of modern day examples and topics. I enjoyed reading this. I was not familiar with her work, but heard her on another podcast and was intrigued. My library has 80 copies, and 240 people waiting. This appears to be somewhat popular.