lokroma reviewed Hot milk by Deborah Levy
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5 stars
Most mother-daughter relationships are complicated. Control, love, hate, duty, admiration, guilt, etc., etc. all compete for space. Sofia and her hypochondriacal mother Rose are in a battle for Sofia's life, and Levy does a pretty brilliant job of hitting every facet of their relationship with a hot white light, much like that of the blazing sun in Almeria, Spain where the story takes place. They travel there from England because Rose claims she can't walk and is seeking treatment at Dr. Gomez's clinic, a breast shaped marble building where his high heeled daughter serves as Nurse Sunshine, and his fat white cat Jodo is about to give birth. Gomez's methods are unconventional to say the least, and include taking Rose off of all her medications. Sofia and Rose stay for weeks while Rose is treated, and Sofia tries desperately to stop enabling her mother and start living her own life. …
Most mother-daughter relationships are complicated. Control, love, hate, duty, admiration, guilt, etc., etc. all compete for space. Sofia and her hypochondriacal mother Rose are in a battle for Sofia's life, and Levy does a pretty brilliant job of hitting every facet of their relationship with a hot white light, much like that of the blazing sun in Almeria, Spain where the story takes place. They travel there from England because Rose claims she can't walk and is seeking treatment at Dr. Gomez's clinic, a breast shaped marble building where his high heeled daughter serves as Nurse Sunshine, and his fat white cat Jodo is about to give birth. Gomez's methods are unconventional to say the least, and include taking Rose off of all her medications. Sofia and Rose stay for weeks while Rose is treated, and Sofia tries desperately to stop enabling her mother and start living her own life.
Although not exactly magical realism, Levy's quirky writing, peopled with bizarre and interesting characters definitely give the book a dreamy feel. Sofia's lovers, Ingrid and Juan; Pablo and his chained dog; the woman who sells watermelon from a truck; Ingrid's life coach boyfriend Matthew; the Medusa jellyfish; and numerous others are well drawn and fascinating. Levy also has a unique way of restating familiar truths that makes us rethink our perceptions. This book is about lots of things: love, gender roles, family history; but mostly it is about getting away from "the kinship structures that are supposed to hold me together. To mess up the story I have been told about myself."