Who Thought This Was a Good Idea?

I thought it wouldn't work, but I didn't know it wouldn't work, so I didn't say anything.

I picked Who Thought This Was a Good Idea? as I needed a light, not overly complicated read that I could pick up for small bits of time while on vacation. This book didn't help. I wanted to read more. I would get through one chapter and immediately want to read the next.

Alyssa Mastromonaco has a very casual, personable and easy writing style that I felt like I was hearing someone casually talk about their personal story. The story didn't unfold in a linear progression, the jumps between time and location was perfectly fitting for someone talking about their career.

Women need to know they are right before they stand up. Men are OK objecting if they just think they might be right.

I'm not a female in a predominantly male driven workplace. I have never had to break down barriers or work to bring disposable menstrual products into my office. Alyssa did all that while being judged for her age, gender and marital status.

...turned out that not having the answers did me no harm.

This is an inspiring book for females, those who want to break into politics or the rest of us who have insecurities about speaking up and may have the slightest sense of imposter syndrome.

This isn't a run of the mill political memoir.   This is the story of what can and will go wrong.  It is the story of friendships forged in stress and sleep deprivation.  It is finding out how to stand up for yourself and your ideas when you are young and female in a job that has always been dominated by older men.I loved a story that she discussed early in the book.  She was in charge of scheduling Barack Obama's time.  During the 2008 campaign there was bad weather forecasted.  She decided to have him go ahead with a live outdoor event in spite of the weather.  It ended up being worse than expected and he was getting hit in the face with sleet through the whole speech.

We watched (in horror) as the event drew to a close, and Obama reached his hand to Reggie.  As we were turning off the TV, my phone rang.

"Alyssa, it's Obama."

"Hi!" I said, with my head down on the desk, girding myself for the inevitable and deserved.  "The event looked AWESOME! You heard John McCain canceled all of his events, right?  He looked like a total old man!"

"Alyssa, where are you right now?"

I was not sure where he was going with this, but I knew it was somewhere bad.  "My desk," I replied cautiously.

"Must be nice."

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She doesn't shy away from discussing the very personal aspects of the job.  One of her proudest moments was getting tampon dispensers in the bathrooms of the White House.  Most of the people working there had been men and post-menopausal women so it hadn't been thought a priority.  She also discusses her IBS and the problems that causes in a job where there is a lot of stress and questionable food choices.She talks about the questions she gets about not having children.  She was working all the time during her twenties and thirties.  She didn't marry until she was 37.  People ask her now if she is sorry that she didn't have children.  I love that she is unapologetic about not being sorry.  She proudly proclaims her status as child-free and having cats instead.Her job encompassed everything from setting up the schedule for the President to coordinating federal emergency response to Hurricane Sandy and the Haitian earthquake.  Where do you go from there?  She talks about how hard it is to leave the White House and decide what to do with your life.One of the hardest parts of reading this book was remembering what it was like once upon a time.  You know, back when the U.S. Presidency wasn't a total embarrassment.  I liked hearing about the personal side of Obama.  He introduced her to Mindy Kaling at an event because he knew she had been reading her book.  He got Bruce Springsteen to call her from a campaign event because she had to stay at the White House after setting up the concert and she was a huge fan.  He called her a year after she quit working at the White House because he heard her cat died that day.  (Everyone knew her cat.  He was famous.  She had a conversation about his health problems with George W. Bush on the way to Nelson Mandela's funeral.)This is a short book and a quick read.  I read it in one sitting.  I'd recommend this book to everyone who wants to know what it is really like to work in the White House.I just have two criticisms.  First, she uses a lot of nicknames for people.  It can be a bit hard to remember who these people actually are when she is using nicknames long after introducing them by their full names.  Second, I feel like she underplays her accomplishments a bit.  She talks about women being conditioned to not stand up and present their ideas and it seems like she is still doing that some here.  If a man wrote a book about doing this job, I feel like it would be a lot more about "Look at me!  I was awesome!"  I wouldn't necessarily like that book as much as I liked this one but what she did was pretty amazing and sometimes that gets lost. This review was originally posted on Based On A True Story