Love Her or Lose Her

A Novel

352 pages

English language

Published Jan. 19, 2020 by HarperCollins Publishers.

ISBN:
978-0-06-287285-2
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Review of 'Love Her or Lose Her' on 'Goodreads'

I received an ARC from the publisher, so here's my honest review.

I find romance novels super satisfying because (1) it's fun to watch people fall in love and (2) experiencing other people's emotional growth first hand makes me hopeful about people in the real world. As a pessimist who occasionally sort of manages to claw my way to realist on a good day, it's lovely to feel hopeful about people. But the inherent drawback is that the book is over when the couple gets together, and we call it an HEA but we all know that relationships aren't actually like that, relationships take attention and work and they have their ups and downs and in some relationships there are enough downs that the relationship falls apart.

So it is surprising, melancholy, and lovely to read about that stage in a relationship, instead -- safe within the context of a …