Hoo, boy, this was tough. “On Earth…” was one of the best books I’ve read this century — I absolutely loved it — so maybe my expectations for this much more straightforward novel were too high. But I found it incredibly disappointing. It was a bit corny and predictable, something I might expect to be picked for Oprah’s Book Club. Except for a few beautiful sentences, it was missing much of the creatively poetic prose of “On Earth…” I didn’t find any of the characters’ actions and emotions to be particularly believable. Even the ending could have basically read “and they all lived happily ever after.” I hope Vuong redeems himself with his next book.
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GG finished reading Emperor of Gladness by Ocean Vuong
GG finished reading No Fault by Haley Mlotek
This book wanders about, somewhat aimlessly, in the territory between memoir and sociological examination of how divorce has been treated in different eras and cultures. I loved this weaving in and out, and so much of what she says about her own marriage and divorce really resonated with me, but it may irritate some readers. A cautionary note about the audiobook is that the author reads it herself, and pronounces “with” as “whiff,” which became surprisingly grating over the course of an entire book. Maybe opt for the print/ebook version.
GG finished reading The Safekeep by Yael van der Wouden
For the first 3/4 of this book, I found it very tedious, a literature’d-up romance novel. I had hoped that some details dropped in the beginning of the story would turn into something interesting, but they didn’t. However, the remaining 1/4 of the book changed my mind entirely.
GG finished reading Careless People by Sarah Wynn-Williams
GG stopped reading Mothers and Sons by Adam Haslett
GG finished reading Grief Is for People by Sloane Crosley
This book was recommended to me because a close friend recently died by suicide, and it was very healing to read it. It’s a strange position to be in, not a wife, brother, or even best friend, of the deceased, but still needing to find a way to carry the grief. For that reason, and because the author is in a similar position, I really enjoyed it. Whether or not others would appreciate it probably depends on how much they like Sloane Crosley’s style of writing.
As a memoir, it has a number of flaws, but my biggest problem with it is that it has a LOT of romanticization about New York. As a native Californian, I find romanticization of New York exhausting, it’s a breathless enthusiasm for caring about the wrong things. There is so much it becomes tedious, and takes a full star off my rating.
Otherwise, it’s …
This book was recommended to me because a close friend recently died by suicide, and it was very healing to read it. It’s a strange position to be in, not a wife, brother, or even best friend, of the deceased, but still needing to find a way to carry the grief. For that reason, and because the author is in a similar position, I really enjoyed it. Whether or not others would appreciate it probably depends on how much they like Sloane Crosley’s style of writing.
As a memoir, it has a number of flaws, but my biggest problem with it is that it has a LOT of romanticization about New York. As a native Californian, I find romanticization of New York exhausting, it’s a breathless enthusiasm for caring about the wrong things. There is so much it becomes tedious, and takes a full star off my rating.
Otherwise, it’s a thoughtful read that essentially examines the questions, “How deeply do we really know those closest to us?” and “How do we keep moving through life when a person we cared about no longer moves forward in it with us?”
GG finished reading Wedding People by Alison Espach
A good friend recently took his own life, and he did it in a hotel. So the coincidence of my starting to read this book literally a couple weeks later probably put it off on the wrong foot with me. Also, I don’t typically read this sort of “elevated mass-market” fiction, so maybe my unenthusiastic reaction to this book is partly an unenthusiastic reaction to the category. This one was recommended to me, so I read it without knowing anything about it. It’s an entertaining story that doesn’t really say anything meaningful, and the characters are amusing but forgettable. The story is relatively contrived. This book felt like it was written with the author’s eye toward selling a movie or Netflix series based on it. But I enjoyed the process of reading it, and I’m sure the Netflix series will be enjoyable too.
GG finished reading The Harder I Fight, The More I Love You by Neko Case
I love Nelo Case, and I wanted to love this memoir, but I felt like it was mostly the story of her making sense of her childhood and adolescence and moving past the way it affected her, and that’s a great reason to spend time in therapy, but a less great reason to write a book. I related to a lot of it, and I enjoyed her prose style, but I felt like I could have skipped it.
GG finished reading The Coming of the Third Reich by Richard J. Evans (The History of the Third Reich, #1)
Not exactly a relaxing read, but essential learning for Americans in 2025. This first book of three covers the incidents, political maneuvers, and social trends that started in WWI and eventually led to the Nazis taking power.
GG finished reading Playground by Richard Powers
I enjoyed The Overstory, but thought it was a bit overstuffed with characters and could have used a better editor. The author must have gotten that feedback from others, because Playground gets it just right. It's a little too on-the-nose with setting up characters who represent opposing views of "technology will save us" versus "technology will ruin us," but I loved the way the story unfolded and the lyrical descriptions of the underwater world.
GG finished reading The Vegetarian by Han Kang
GG finished reading Martyr! by Kaveh Akbar
GG finished reading Good Material by Dolly Alderton
I was getting very tired of this book until I got to the last 15-20%. And then I LOVED it. I wish the first 80-85% had been tightened up a bit. And, no spoilers, but the structure is an exact copy of a 2019 book that was turned into a limited series a few years ago. We read it for my book club, and I’m not sure we’ll have too much to talk about, as everything about it is relatively light and forgettable. It was nevertheless an entertaining read.
GG finished reading An Artist of the Floating World by Kazuo Ishiguro
A subtle and beautiful portrait of post-World War II Japan, viewed through the eyes of an unreliable narrator. It examines the way the people who supported the totalitarian society (and informed on their friends and neighbors) dealt with their guilt (or lack thereof) and social ostracism.