WardenRed reviewed The Place Between by Kit Oliver
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5 stars
The two of them here, with their wine and the messy, painful pasts.
The blurb makes it seem like a romcom, but really, it’s a bittersweet, autumnal story of mutual healing that just happens to include fake dating, meddling coworkers, and a weekend with only one bed. In general, even though I expected something different, I strongly enjoyed the atmosphere of the story. It starts off rather sad, with Ned, the main character, trying to adjust to post-divorce life and finish his dissertation and generally figure out where he goes from here. Outside of getting to spend time with his daughter, very little gets through the grey that is his mind. Until the head of his department steps in with some well-meaning but intrusive ideas on work-life balance, and it turns out Ned’s dissertation needs additions that he must work on with his former professor (no age gap/power imbalance here, …
The blurb makes it seem like a romcom, but really, it’s a bittersweet, autumnal story of mutual healing that just happens to include fake dating, meddling coworkers, and a weekend with only one bed. In general, even though I expected something different, I strongly enjoyed the atmosphere of the story. It starts off rather sad, with Ned, the main character, trying to adjust to post-divorce life and finish his dissertation and generally figure out where he goes from here. Outside of getting to spend time with his daughter, very little gets through the grey that is his mind. Until the head of his department steps in with some well-meaning but intrusive ideas on work-life balance, and it turns out Ned’s dissertation needs additions that he must work on with his former professor (no age gap/power imbalance here, the professor’s his age), and then meddling coworkers completely misinterpret a dinner they witness. And somehow, step by step, all these romcom clichés lead to even more romcom clichés—except there’s very little comedy and lots of dealing with the characters’ respective painful histories.
I found it interesting how the author approaches writing a character with depression: it feels very realistic, and the overall vibe is like there’s this filter layered over everything. Like there’s the story that’s actually happening, and you can see it rather clearly, but you also can’t help but acknowledge the small distortions and wrong tints and whatnot between you and the story. I think it’s mainly achieved via POV/voice: the story’s told in this sort of detached way, like the protagonist is observing his own life rather than participating in it, and then when during select moments he does get invested in what’s going on, he focuses on highly specific things. The worst parts of the situations. The possible bad outcome. The painful parts, just over the ones that do bring him joy. The interpretations of facts that he already understands to be false but clings to anyway because they are in line with what his depression tells him. And then as the story progresses and he gets, step by step, better, he focuses more and more often on different details—first in addition to the kind outlined above, then instead of them—and the lens gradually clears.
The title of the novel is really very fitting: both Ned and Henry are stuck between the pasts that are still hurting them and finding the courage to step into the future and build something new. I really enjoyed seeing the two of them muddle through it and unintentionally prop each other up, figuring out intimacy and trust as they went. Henry is the type of character that always resonates with me a lot—a shy introvert who comes across as an asshole because peopling is fucking hard, what do you all want, how do I convince you that I don’t hate you. And Ned was just so well-written that it was impossible not to feel for him every step of the way. I’m not entirely sure I’m buying their happy ending as a HEA, because even though they both get better by the end of the book I still feel they need therapy more than they need romance, but I have a lot of hope. Really, this is the main feeling this book is soaked through with for me: hope, even when things are bleak.
Also, it was super heartwarming to see Ned so loved by the important people in his life, especially his father and his friend Pat. Like, even when Ned didn’t really appear to feel it, the love just spilled over the page, adding to that big hope vibe. Oh, and Baxter is the absolute best dog. I wish I could pat him.
If I have to find something to complain about, I guess I can mention the pacing being somewhat off in the middle, and the way certain key details about Henry’s backstory and life come up being a bit awkward, with more telling than showing. Not to mention that I was a bit uncomfortable with how readily Susan spilled certain details to Ned while acknowledging Henry probably wouldn’t be telling him that on his own—sure, she thought they were in a relationship, but that doesn’t mean she got to decide how that relationship progressed and when the two adult people in it decided to share certain things with each other. But I also feel like I’m meant to fill uncomfortable with this, as meddling well-meaniing people and the problems they can create is a big part of the story’s pack of themes. So it’s not an objective complaint about the story, more just “I dislike this one character as a fictional person.”