4 stars because it's becoming a bit dated, but it's still a great read.
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horiaconstantin reviewed Widen the Window by Bessel van der Kolk
horiaconstantin finished reading The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel A. Van Der Kolk
I've taken so many insights and tools for dealing with my own trauma from this book that the only thing that I can say is: "If you are working on any kind of trauma (yours, of someone close to you, or for your clients), this book is a must-read."
horiaconstantin reviewed Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss
didn't finish it
2 stars
Something bothers me about this book, and I can't figure out what. Maybe it's the fact that everything is presented as a technique (which in themselves seem great) and not part of a broader worldview. I was never left with the impression that the author authentically cares about the people he's negotiating with. And that is, for me, the difference between manipulation and empathy.
horiaconstantin reviewed Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman
Mindblowing read
5 stars
This book challenges many of my views on efficiency, getting things done, distraction, etc. Besides offering a philosophical, historical, and down-to-earth perspective on life, it has solid advice.
About increasing the quality of the time you spend: 1) "cut out time for yourself first", 2) limit work in progress, 3) resist the allure of seductive but not essential priorities.
About patience: 1) develop a taste for having problems (it will always be that we have problems); 2) embrace radical incrementalism (small, constant work VS. big-bang work); 3) originality lies on the far side of unoriginality (the metaphor is those of busses leaving from a train station, that follow the same route initially, only to diverge later).
Five questions to contemplate in order to get closer to living more: 1) Where in your life or your work are you pursuing comfort when what's called for is discomfort? Does this choice diminish …
This book challenges many of my views on efficiency, getting things done, distraction, etc. Besides offering a philosophical, historical, and down-to-earth perspective on life, it has solid advice.
About increasing the quality of the time you spend: 1) "cut out time for yourself first", 2) limit work in progress, 3) resist the allure of seductive but not essential priorities.
About patience: 1) develop a taste for having problems (it will always be that we have problems); 2) embrace radical incrementalism (small, constant work VS. big-bang work); 3) originality lies on the far side of unoriginality (the metaphor is those of busses leaving from a train station, that follow the same route initially, only to diverge later).
Five questions to contemplate in order to get closer to living more: 1) Where in your life or your work are you pursuing comfort when what's called for is discomfort? Does this choice diminish me or enlarge me? 2) Are you judging yourself by standards of productivity or performance that are impossible to meet? 3) In what ways have you yet to accept the fact that you're who you are and not the person you think you ought to be? 4) In which areas of your life are you still handling back until you feel like you know what you're doing? 5) How would you spend your days differently if you didn't care so much about seeing your actions seeing fruition?
horiaconstantin rated Clean Code: 4 stars
Clean Code by Robert Cecil Martin (Robert C. Martin)
horiaconstantin reviewed The Dichotomy of Leadership by Willink Jocko
Good leadership advice, could be shorter
4 stars
I like that this book adds depth and nuance to Extreme Ownership. It's the same structure and writing style; therefore, reading it immediately after EO felt tedious and repetitive. If you skip the "battlefield" experience parts, it's definitely worth reading.
horiaconstantin reviewed Super Thinking by Gabriel Weinberg
Not convinced
3 stars
I was very excited to start reading this book because I like to read about mental models and I delivers. What it doesn't deliver is applicability and fun of reading. I mean Tha the book reads more like a novel than a workbook from which I take actionable advice and guidance.
horiaconstantin reviewed Here Comes Everybody by Clay Shirky
horiaconstantin reviewed Rolling Rocks Downhill by Clarke Ching
review
3 stars
spoiler alert I read this book because it was presented to me as an updated and easier to read version of "The Goal". I can relate a big part of it with "The phoenix Project" which is more comprehensive, but admittedly a longer read. The Phoenix Project includes concepts from devops and lean manufacturing.
Back to the review: It was funny to see that all the problems Steve had were solved at the managerial level and the culture change was so easy and straightforward (basically everyone started working in "the new way" immediately and there were no problems there). There were a couple of arguments here and there, but all the stakeholders were more than happy to listen to Steve's orders. I wonder if it is the same in reality. But it's a novel and the author wanted to explain the principles behind "The goal" and that purpose was definitely …
spoiler alert I read this book because it was presented to me as an updated and easier to read version of "The Goal". I can relate a big part of it with "The phoenix Project" which is more comprehensive, but admittedly a longer read. The Phoenix Project includes concepts from devops and lean manufacturing.
Back to the review: It was funny to see that all the problems Steve had were solved at the managerial level and the culture change was so easy and straightforward (basically everyone started working in "the new way" immediately and there were no problems there). There were a couple of arguments here and there, but all the stakeholders were more than happy to listen to Steve's orders. I wonder if it is the same in reality. But it's a novel and the author wanted to explain the principles behind "The goal" and that purpose was definitely achieved. It became very clear to me how every process can be improved by breaking it down into parts and looking for the bottlenecks. This was a major takeaway for me.
To sum up, the book is easy to read, ITers will relate to it easily and it explains well the bottleneck theory. But don't expect to get a lot more than that.