One of the most prescient books I’ve ever read - discussion of the utopian future in which sexuality is not a big issue, in which people love comfortably and sustainably, in which reparations for past wrongs is policy, all balanced with a recognition of this as a future which may not come to pass (and a flash of the dystopia, sharply similar to the world we are now in). Leaves you feeling worried that we continue to take the wrong path without thinking.