A deeply human read through a stoic assessment on aging in modern times. Fears, desires, quality of life, meaning, and independence are gracefully discussed to improve our ability to maintain happiness and autonomy amid deterioration. This wasn't necessarily an enjoyable read, but has got to be one of the best books you can read for your loved ones and yourself. The mental preparation alone is worth it, and the author is a great storyteller. There are plenty of happy moments as Gawande weaves stories from his professional career with his own family experience, and it's wonderful.