Is Love the Answer?

Graphic novel, 258 pages

English language

Published Jan. 17, 2023 by Kodansha Comics.

ISBN:
978-1-64651-649-0
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ASIN:
1646516494

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5 stars (4 reviews)

A poignant coming-of-age story about a young woman coming into her own as she discovers her identity as aromantic asexual. A complete story in a single volume, from the creator of "Mine-kun is Asexual."

When it comes to love, high schooler Chika wonders if she might be an alien. She’s never fallen for or even had a crush on anyone, and she has no desire for physical intimacy. Her friends tell her that she just "hasn't met the one yet," but Chika has doubts... It's only when Chika enters college and meets peers like herself that she realizes there’s a word for what she feels inside—asexual—and she’s not the only one. After years of wondering if love was the answer, Chika realizes that the answer she long sought may not exist at all—and that that's perfectly normal.

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A thoughtful and well-illustrated exploration of asexuality and the ace spectrum.

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Chika feels out place in a way that she can't describe. The version of love that everyone assures her will show up someday seems unattainable - even undesirable. It's a struggle many ace people have been through - how do you define something by its lack? Especially in a world where sexual attraction and romance are considered as universal and as "normal" as breathing. But as Chika discovers, not all love is expressed sexually or romantically. Not everyone is wired to be that way, and that is, in fact, entirely normal. This isn't a story as much as it is a really well-illustrated exploration of asexuality and the ace gradient, with a cast of really fun characters. I appreciate that the story also covers the fact that there's no one way to be asexual, and that terms and words are only useful until they aren't. It's a very sweet coming-of-age …

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5 stars

Sweet ending!

It’s incredible and crazy how much I relate to each of the characters views, even though they’re so different.
The author’s amazing. I feel like they interviewed me before making the manga and then made a character out of each of my opinions, lol.

Although it was a bit cliche at times, and started with the toxic hetero trope, overall the representation is great. You can tell the author did lots of research. 
It's not that the protagonist simply concludes that she's ace, but the fluidity of sexuality also is explained. That asexuality is an umbrella term and that there are so many different kinds of labels underneath it, and everyone feels different about it. 
Aro/Ace identity is probably the only one section of attraction that is so unique to each person. It's not like being gay where it's just "oh yea i only like the same gender", …

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