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Kurt Vonnegut: The Sirens of Titan (Hardcover, 1971, Delta) 4 stars

The Sirens of Titan is an outrageous romp through space, time, and morality. The richest, …

Vonnegut carries so much love, he cultivates compassion even to most despicable people

5 stars

When I started reading this book, after Breakfast of Champions and Slaughterhouse #5 which I read as a young person learning how fucked up the world is, I had a feeling of almost Adamsian lightness of talking about heavy social things. Oh how wrong I was!

So to those who want to venture into this book, a fair warning: expect soul-crushing stuff after every corner. Reading the book is like wandering the caves of Mercury.

The story is very layered and has some twists, so don't be too arrogant if you think you see where it's going. What's more, please think the book through from back to front after you complete it.

There is only one positive character in the book, but I felt so much compassion to another one, and another one later. Which, as I recover from the book hangover[1], I find slightly distressing, but it's a testament …

Ichirō Kishimi, Fumitake Koga: The courage to be disliked (2018, Atria Books) 3 stars

"The Courage to Be Disliked, already an enormous bestseller in Asia with more than 3.5 …

A useful lens to approach some of your problems

3 stars

Enough Adlerian psychology has filtered into the American mainstream that parts of this book just feel like generic self-help, but the core ideas are powerful and coherent. The main ideas (below, probably missed some) seem sensible to me -- although # 5 ignores e.g. health problems.

Some precepts: 1. Don't think about etiology, think about teleology. In other words, don't look into your past for causes of your problems -- think about your goals, both the ones you've consciously voiced and the ones you haven't acknowledged to yourself yet. 2. Etiology is deterministic, teleology is in your control. If you believe that your traumatic childhood caused your current behavior, you must believe that you cannot climb out of it. On the other hand, if you take a teleological approach, you can just change your goals. 3. If you have a problem, it is because it serves some future-oriented goal you …