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This book has triggers for SA, suicide, assault of the main character, death of a child, and others that I'm sure I've forgotten. I feel that these are tactfully handled, considering the time period and social standards for the culture at that time.

What a lovely, thoughtful read. I enjoyed learning about some Chinese history through this book's historical fantasy setting. The insights to Chinese fox mythologies were ones I've never had before, and the delightful, gentle narration of Snow topped this whole experience off with a wonderful resolution.

The author's note in my copy had reflections from the author on the research that she did to write this book. Her insights and literary sources are ones that I will be following up on to learn more about the culture, time period, and stories she drew this novel from.

I haven't read a book quite like this one before, and I hope to find another like it soon.

3/5. As cozy as a murder-detective novel can be, with insights to life, spirituality, and the human condition. I recommend for readers who enjoy folklore, can read about the typical failings of men and what they do to women, enjoy strong, steadfast female leads, and characters that are fully rounded with well-established flaws. I did feel that some portions/phrases were repeated a bit too often, and the entire plot of the story itself was not one I found particularly gripping. A nice book for a rainy evening.

Happy reading!

This book is very interesting, especially when taking into account the personality and circumstances of the author. Pema is a person who has been exposed with allegations of abuse in her sect of practice, and I am rating the book outside of the knowledge of these allegations. I am, of course, going to point out a few moments where I felt the perspective where she thought these things were okay come out.

Reading this book was interesting because it is like a handbook for Pema's Buddhist practice. Various mindsets, meditations, mantras, and goals to achieve are outlined chapter by chapter. There are a few moments where Pema describes having love for all people, even those who are "bad." I do attribute this to her religious beliefs more than an alignment with the morals of those "bad" people because she describes the importance of leaving a situation (saying "enough") as also being a form of loving compassion towards yourself and others.

Overall an interesting, educative read, 2.5 stars. I can't say I trust that everything said in this book is an actual representation of the Buddhist sect Pema is part of because of how she was raised and my general reservations towards white women who co-opt and profit from religions like Buddhism. I am glad I did not purchase my copy because I do not want to support this woman's institution whatsoever.

Hmm...glad I didn't buy this one.