Matt Cengia quoted How to ADHD by Jessica McCabe
Some people use small talk to see if they have chemistry with another person, which helps us decide if a deeper relationship is possible.
— How to ADHD by Jessica McCabe (55%)
Wait wait wait, what? Can some neurotypical person please explain this (do any neurotypical folk even follow me!? 😂) What sort of indicators, feelings, or whatever do you get to tell you that you have chemistry with someone, from nothing more than small talk? (You know, as opposed to discovering shared interests or values?)
