The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows

288 pages

English language

Published June 30, 2021 by Simon & Schuster, Limited.

ISBN:
978-1-5011-5364-8
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Have you ever wondered about the lives of each person you pass on the street, realizing that everyone is the main character in their own story, each living a life as vivid and complex as your own? That feeling has a name: “sonder.” Or maybe you’ve watched a thunderstorm roll in and felt a primal hunger for disaster, hoping it would shake up your life. That’s called “lachesism.” Or you were looking through old photos and felt a pang of nostalgia for a time you’ve never actually experienced. That’s “anemoia.”

If you’ve never heard of these terms before, that’s because they didn’t exist until John Koenig set out to fill the gaps in our language of emotion. The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows “creates beautiful new words that we need but do not yet have,” says John Green, bestselling author of The Fault in Our Stars. By turns poignant, relatable, and …

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Great addition to The Devil's Dictionary or The Meaning of Liff

5 stars

I draw the comparison to the above two books because it's a similar approach: you make a kind of dictionary of interesting stuff, or through a lens that makes the stuff interesting. In the case of this book, it's about "obscure sorrows", but -- as the foreword notes -- it's not actually about sad things.

Rather it is about naming those moments in life where the absurdity of common moments hits you, and opens you up, if just for a moment, to the melancholy of contemplating the point of it all. It can be joyful, it can be sad, but it's definitely an experience.

I find it's perfect for the bathroom shelf (all book lovers have a bathroom shelf, right?). You can read a page, consider a word or five, how it applies to your life. And then the moment passes.

I can't claim to have read the thing in …

An encyclopedia of relatable but nameless feelings

4 stars

This is a very nice book that starts from the brilliant idea of describing and naming complex feelings and emotions for which there is no word in English (and I would guess, most other languages). The descriptions are somewhat hit-and-miss. Some are extremely poignant, others end up in the cheesy end of the spectrum. A book not to be read cover-to-cover, but to consult serendipitously every now and then.

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