Better to Have Gone

Love, Death, and the Quest for Utopia in Auroville

Hardcover, 368 pages

Published July 20, 2021 by Scribner.

ISBN:
978-1-5011-3251-3
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OCLC Number:
1259588344

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It’s the late 1960s, and two lovers converge on an arid patch of earth in South India. John Walker is the handsome scion of a powerful East Coast American family. Diane Maes is a beautiful hippie from Belgium. They have come to build a new world—Auroville, an international utopian community for thousands of people. Their faith is strong, the future bright.

So how do John and Diane end up dying two decades later, on the same day, on a cracked concrete floor in a thatch hut by a remote canyon? This is the mystery Akash Kapur sets out to solve in Better to Have Gone, and it carries deep personal resonance: Diane and John were the parents of Akash’s wife, Auralice. Akash and Auralice grew up in Auroville; like the rest of their community, they never really understood those deaths.

In 2004, Akash and Auralice return to Auroville from New …

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This book was one of my favorite reads of the year. Deeply moving and engaging, it tells four interwoven stories. The main narrative is Kapur's investigation into the mysterious death of John and Diane (his wife's parents) while he and his wife were children. They both grew up in Auroville, a utopian community based near Puddicherry in Southern India founded by The Mother and inspired by the writings of Sri Aurobindo. The secondary narratives look at the history of Auroville and the people who came from all over the world, and the complex dynamics of communal experiments. But what brings the narrative together is Kapur's reflection of his own complex relationship with Auroville after he and his family return to live in Auroville in the mid 2000s. How can we return to a place that means so much to us and yet has caused us so much pain? This was …

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