Talking to Strangers

What We Should Know About the People We Don't Know

Hardcover, 386 pages

English language

Published Jan. 24, 2019 by Little, Brown and Company.

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4 stars (39 reviews)

1 edition

Review of 'Talking to Strangers' on 'Goodreads'

3 stars

While most of Gladwell's books have simply taken a concept and explored it through a variety of examples that more-or-less support his hypothesis, in Talking to Strangers he tries to do something far more ambitious: examine a single horrific incident by exploring a slew of concepts that he feels explain how things played out as they did.

This doesn't entirely work. Individual chapters can be fascinating, as you learn of how bad spy agencies are at recognizing spies in their midsts, how suicides can be lessened by making suicide less convenient, and how crime varies not by neighborhood but by block.

Some subjects feel underbaked. He starts with the idea that people naturally believe other people, but that seems simplistic, since clearly people believe their in-tribe more than their out-tribe, and that is ignored. And I was fascinated by the block-by-block crime phenomenon and frustrated that he offered no explanation …

Review of 'Talking to Strangers' on 'Goodreads'

4 stars

Very much enjoyed this. Gladwell is an endlessly interesting and thoughtful guy. He plays a little fast and loose with his conclusions at times, but there's so much interesting scenery along the way that I seldom find myself minding at all. And some of that was very useful in making sense of some of the friendships I've had in the past that have developed in unexpected ways. Very much worth reading.

Review of 'Talking to Strangers' on 'Goodreads'

4 stars

I've read several of Gladwell's books now and have enjoyed each of them, including this one, which I received for Christmas. In customary fashion, Gladwell teases out unexpected (and likely valid) conclusions from data and studies not followed by the general populous. While I have enjoyed his other books more for this quality, the focus of this book is itself difficult but necessary to grasp -- what mistakes observers repeatedly make in analyzing the speech, conduct, and habits of strangers (and how we are primed to make such mistakes). It's a worthwhile subject handled in an illustrative and deliberate manner. Worth one's time.

Review of 'Talking to Strangers' on 'Goodreads'

3 stars

Overall, this book was entertaining and provided an interesting lens to re-evaluate stories that I was already familiar with.

I found his treatment of the Stanford rape case & Sandra Bland very troublesome.

He spent way too much time describing the events from the perspective of Brock Turner. He barely slips in at the end his story was likely shaped by his lawyers and did not align well with his statements or actions at the time of his arrest. I just couldn't get my head around what point he was trying to draw with his strange teetotaler sentiment either. It's as though he was ready to conclude that sexual assault at college campuses wasn't an issue until binge drinking came into existence... what?

Sandra Bland was a bit more excusable, he makes a compelling case for how this specific vehicular search policy could have led to raised tensions. He mentions …

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