Smoke gets in your eyes

4) Smoke Gets in your Eyes, by Caitlin Doughty a bit older but really loved this touching and also in depth guide to well, the death industry and memoir

(and shout of to THE LOVED ONE by Evelyn Waugh in this book, one of the great LA outside novels)

I would have Rated Ten Stars if I could. I found myself sharing many of the same world views as the author.