#trans folks of the Fediverse, what resources would you suggest for a #transmasc person struggling with impostor syndrome about their feelings of gender dysphoria?
(very literally asking for a friend; for all my problems, certainty is not one of them.)
After graduation, Kieran expected to go straight into a career of flipping burgers—only to be …
This is a short fun #queer#romance novel that depicts highly relatable #nonbiany, #transmasc, and #bisexual experiences. It might be a little overblown in a longer format, but pretty fun for short-form queer romantic escapism.
@forestine has me thinking today about masculinity. How do you define masculinity? How does your definition push back against racist, transphobic, ableist, etc narratives?
boosts appreciated! yes, despite the tags, answers from cis folks are also appreciated!
My first therapy appointment is set for TOMORROW at 1pm, and you can help me finally have queer/neurodivergent/trauma friendly and understanding therapy and mental health care.
I just want to clarify first that people can absolutely use whatever terms/labels that fit best for them, and that definitions of said terms/labels can vary from person to person and that's totally fine - so if anyone reads this who has a different experience or definition to what I'm about to say, that's completely valid!
So what do people define as gender nonconforming, particularly in regards to trans people and transitioning?
I'm an afab trans guy - I also ID as bigender, and my second gender is acegender. I've been on T since April 2018, take progesterone to stop my periods, consistently dress in what is traditionally viewed as men's/masc clothing, and am typically read as male. However, I've chosen not to have any surgery and also don't bind - which means I have a visible chest.
Would this be classed as gender nonconforming?
On the one hand - …
I just want to clarify first that people can absolutely use whatever terms/labels that fit best for them, and that definitions of said terms/labels can vary from person to person and that's totally fine - so if anyone reads this who has a different experience or definition to what I'm about to say, that's completely valid!
So what do people define as gender nonconforming, particularly in regards to trans people and transitioning?
I'm an afab trans guy - I also ID as bigender, and my second gender is acegender. I've been on T since April 2018, take progesterone to stop my periods, consistently dress in what is traditionally viewed as men's/masc clothing, and am typically read as male. However, I've chosen not to have any surgery and also don't bind - which means I have a visible chest.
Would this be classed as gender nonconforming?
On the one hand - I firmly believe that no body part is gendered, so I in no way view my body (pr parts thereof) as female. So therefore don't consider the presence of a chest makes you any less male/masc.
However, as things stand, the narrative around transmasc/trans male bodies is that you have top surgery. This is such a strong narrative that people insist on referring to me as pre op, and ask me when I'm having surgery or even assume that I've already had surgery, despite the fact I have openly not wanted surgery for several years now. So arguably, I'm not conforming to the expectations attached to my gender identity and presentation.
I'd be interested to see what others think - as I can kinda see both sides
#transmasc achievement unlocked: I got food stuck in my beard.
It's far from the first time that I got peanut butter on my chin! But it definitely felt new: when I happened to feel it I was like "WHAT the FUCK has HAPPENED to my FACE??" 😆
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notes from "Can the Monster Speak? Academy of Psychoanalysts" Paul B. Preciado
"I bring up the pleasure of childhood learning because a similar pleasure exists in the appropriation of a new voice and a new name, in the exploration of the world beyond the cage of masculinity and femininity that is part of the process of transitioning. Though brief in chronological terms, this period becomes very long when you travel the world, when you find yourself in the media spotlight as the ‘trending topic’ trans; and when, in reality, you are alone when you are required to appear before a psychiatrist, a border guard, a doctor or a judge.”
I've been out as nonbinary since 2014 but recently starred identifying as transmasc/demiboy. I'm using he/him/they/them with my closest friends. All of which are supportive so far (I still have a few to talk to about it).
Does anyone have advice on asking and correcting people to use my preferred pronouns? I'm talking about people I'm not close with, like old work colleges and stuff.
I have ptsd and get very anxious when asking people for anything, really. I also have some really bad experiences when trying to come out in the past. It took me years to start binding again after an ex freaked out when I showed intrest in it.
Any advice is greatly appreciated. I'm feeling like I'm being a nuisance a lot of the time and keep invalidating myself. 🫠
while I've been quiet on here, I've been working on helping put together a 2nd transmasc anthology zine!
AAAND DRUMROLL PLEASE....!
💀 PREORDERS OPEN JUNE 15TH! 💀
if you're interested in picking up a copy of the World Beyond the Veil transmasc horror zine, get ready, because they'll be available soon--and we'll start our countdown tomorrow!
A warning for my #transmasc, #nonbinary#enby (and #transfemme) siblings who need to use binding, along with those in the various fandoms who may use binding to protray a character whose gender is different to their own.
Looks like GC2B is sadly closing its International (UK) store, (https://www.gc2b.io) and that's frankly gutting.
The site says it's going to be eventually closing its International store, but will be keeping its U.S. store running.
If you need binders and like their selection, now's the time to order some.
I've used them in the past for a transmasc family member, and I've ordered a few binders in my time for #Cosplay purposes. It's sad that the change of policies in Europe is causing this.