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ssweeny

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Software engineer from #Pittsburgh, PA, USA. Opinions are my own, not those of my spouse, employer, child, or pets. In fact there are few areas in which we agree.

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Edward M. Hallowell, John J. Md Ratey: Delivered from Distraction (Paperback, 2005, Ballantine Books)

"In 1994, Driven to Distraction sparked a revolution in our understanding of attention deficit disorder. …

Delivered from Distraction

A former coworker of mine mentioned that he'd recently been diagnosed with ADHD and his therapist had recommended this book to him.

Very on-brand, the author recommends early on that you skip around to different sections of the book depending on what seems relevant to you.

I thought the early sections about the history of ADHD as a diagnosis and the various elements that may or may not manifest with it were fascinating. I don't have a diagnosis but I definitely recognized traits that I share from these sections.

Later on the topics get more specialized (dealing with your own ADHD, dealing with a child with it, etc.) and I was almost grateful to have "permission" to skip around at that point. Most of these later sections were not super relevant to me but I can definitely see them being a useful resource for folks in the relevant situations.

Definitely …

Laura Ingalls Wilder: By the Shores of Silver Lake (Little House) (Paperback, 2004, HarperTrophy)

The Ingalls family had fared badly in Plum Creek, Minnesota. They were in debt. Mary …

By the Shores of Silver Lake

Man this family moved around a lot.

This was another enjoyable mostly-lighthearted tale about the Ingalls family moving yet again. This time Pa got a job doing payroll for some railroad workers with the intention of claiming a homestead once the work was done.

I still enjoy Pa's optimism in these stories, and the fact that he can build a shanty in less than a day.

reviewed Dawn of night by Paul S. Kemp (The Erevis Cale trilogy ;)

Paul S. Kemp: Dawn of night (2004, Wizards of the Coast)

Enjoyable Forgotten Realms Nonsense

Came back to try to finish this series.

The characters are brilliant. Lots of meditation on religion and philosophy. The interplay between the villains is almost as good as between the heroes.

The plotting is good too. Keeps you guessing.

Some of the action is a bit rote. Feels like "studio notes" in some places where the author had to refer to some element in the D&D rules.

Still, definitely an enjoyable read.

Kerstin Hall: Asunder (2024, Doherty Associates, LLC, Tom)

Asunder by Kerstin Hall

Someone on these here internets (I wish I could remember who it was) recommended this one and oh boy was it right up my alley.

The setting is a dark fantasy world after a war in which one culture's gods or "heralds" wiped out the other's. The main character could be right out of a classic cyberpunk story. Down on her luck in her youth she traded her life to one of these heralds for the power to speak to the recently dead, and as the story begins she's waiting for the contract to come due.

In trying to save a man's life she binds him to her shadow and that starts a second ticking clock. Can she find the magic to separate them before one of them consumes the other?

I admit some of the world-building lost me at times. But the characters more than made up for it. …

reviewed Ragweed by Avi (Tales from Dimwood Forest)

Avi: Ragweed (2000, HarperTrophy)

Ragweed, a young country mouse, leaves his family and travels to the big city, where …

Ragweed by Avi

Another read with the kiddo. This series has been really fun!

This is a prequel to "Poppy" featuring the adventures of her boyfriend(?) Ragweed as he leaves home in the country and heads to the big city.

I really enjoyed the way the mouse culture in the city was so different. There's a skateboard punk mouse and lots of characters referring to each other as "dude". I may have used my best Bill & Ted impression when reading the dialogue to the kiddo.

Definitely a fun read. There's some tension with local cats that feels at the same time silly and full of real threat.

Spencer Johnson: Who Moved My Cheese?: An Amazing Way to Deal with Change in Your Work and in Your Life (2002)

Who Moved My Cheese? An Amazing Way to Deal with Change in Your Work and …

Silly and obvious but there are some good nuggets in there.

I can see why this book has the reputation it does. It's very simple and beats you over the head with its main points. If my boss gave me this to read before a giant restructure I'd probably launch it at his head.

That said, some of the bits about overthinking changes and fretting so much over how a change might negatively affect you did resonate with me, and I recognized myself in there, so maybe thinking of this silly tale will help with that.

The whole thing is around 100 pages. Get it from the library, take an hour to read it, try to get from it what you can.

Oh, skip the final "discussion" session. It's short, but it feels like a really bad after-school special about business.

reviewed The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson (The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, #1)

Mark Manson: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck (2016, Harper)

In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us …

You only have so many to give.

The latest in a series of "self-help" style books I've gotten from the library this year.

This one had by far the "loosest" prose. Probably because the author started as a blogger rather than an academic. But this style helped the "anecdote interspersed with lessons learned" pattern that these books tend to use feel less stale.

I do think the overall lesson of "you are mortal and therefore can only give so many fucks, so choose carefully what to give a fuck about" is probably more necessary now than ever and I'm so glad I read this one.

Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, Al Switzler: Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, Second Edition (2011, McGraw-Hill Education)

Very Informative

Enjoyed this one. Compared to some other nonfiction/self-help-type books I've read recently this one spent way less time on anecdotes and more on actual, actionable advice with examples of how a conversation might go, how it might go wrong, and how to recover. Exactly what I was looking for.