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Review of 'Sleep Well, Take Risks, Squish the Peas' on 'Goodreads'

This is a very fun book. It sometimes takes too broad brushes to paint research results' implications for our lives. But it's a very efficient way to help parents understand their toddlers and embrace that part of life. The summaries of "toddlers' teachings" at the end of each chapter oscillate between being way too generic and useful advice.

Review of 'Attachments' on 'Goodreads'

Some thoughts in progress: Reflections and essays on fatherhood by fathers are rare, and this book stands out in that regard. It leaves me with a diffuse feeling. There were lots of insights and pearls, I really appreciated seeing how dads' online media is perceived, I loved that essay about Brad Pitt, and some of the playground anecdotes. But I can't tell that I retain a particular argument.

Teddy Wayne: Winner (2024, HarperCollins Publishers)

Review of 'Winner' on 'Goodreads'

I almost stopped reading after the first 50 pages or so - thinking this was too bad-romance-novel for me. The minutiae of covid-era precautions felt over played, although I do remember them (and still practice them to an extent). It would have been a mistake. Because someone I trust recommended it I kept reading, eventually leaning in the discomfort, very much intended by the author, and quite well done. It reminds me in many ways of Maupassant's Bel-Ami. Still thinking about it - would recommend but advise you might need to persist for the rewards.

Ruth Whippman: BoyMom (2024, Crown Publishing Group, The)

Review of 'BoyMom' on 'Goodreads'

I really wanted to like this book, and it makes lots of good and important arguments. Of particular interest, the research on how biological specificity (such as brain areas developing at different times) of baby boys meets Western bias, leading to boys receiving less attention and affection from their parents. It also covers well different aspects of "modern masculinity" from the incels community, to the difficulty of changing the culture around sex after #metoo without ostracizing kids making mistakes.

I'm however struck by how negatively the book describes boys and the physicality of children, especially in the memoir part; and by the lack of discussion around ADHD, the increasing prescription of Ritalin and how this plays in a culture of performance that is detrimental to all children. There's no denying Ritalin helps some children. But there are tons of discussions around the over-diagnosis of boys, especially non-white boys, and how …

Neige Sinno: Triste tigre (Paperback, français language, 2023, P.O.L)

J'ai voulu y croire, j'ai voulu rêver que le royaume de la littérature m'accueillerait comme …

Review of 'Triste tigre' on 'Goodreads'

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Il y a des livres qu'on ouvre et qu'on ne peut pas refermer avant de les avoir traversé. Celui-ci en fait partie.

Elissa Strauss: When You Care (2024, Gallery Books)

Review of 'When You Care' on 'Goodreads'

I read this book in one sitting with a 20 months old - definitely something every parent should read.

I'll get back to this review later, but this is the first book in my reading-about-parenthood streak that articulates its transcendent quality. Like the author, all that was ever told me about parenthood is that you love your kids but the actual work is dehumanizing, breaks your brain, is boring, and the list goes on. When I became a parent, I honestly couldn't understand why others spoke of it so negatively, lest they were tradwives. My experience of full-time parenthood has largely been fascinating. And I've never quite managed to articulate how awe-inspiring it is. This book did that, and I am grateful for it.

Zoe Zolbrod: The telling (2016) No rating

Review of 'The telling' on 'Goodreads'

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The telling explores the ramifications of sexual abuse in early childhood, for the victim and her family. It tells uncomfortable truths about how we overlook or minimize these acts to continue functioning, the time it takes to come to terms with this event. Heartwrenching.

Alexandra Lange: Meet Me By the Fountain (Hardcover, 2022, Bloomsbury Publishing)

Review of 'Meet Me By the Fountain' on 'Goodreads'

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Lange highlights the many lessons the design history of malls offers when it comes to designing for a thriving public realm.

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About once a year I ask friends to meet by the fountain - the one in front of the railway station near the city I grew up in, in the north of France. This is what the title first brought to mind, and I wasn’t too far off. Lange examines the mall as an American form of architecture that provided a form of privately-owned public space for a wide range of people to meet and congregate. She points that, all of us in their thirties or older probably “has” a mall, its shape and structure living in our brain rent free. A form of architecture developing in the 1940s and expanding after World War 2, it peaks in the 1980s in the US, and I’d say a little …

Review of 'Designing Motherhood' on 'Goodreads'

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Our book club pick for February was Designing Motherhood: Things That Make and Break Our Births, edited by Amber Winick and Michelle Fisher (2021, MIT Press). The book functions like a catalog for the exhibitions organized by the editors and builds on a years-long project on Instagram, rooted in a collaboration with Maternity Care Coalition. Its rich visual iconography mixes personal and community archives, the technical, medical, social and private gaze. It stands out for its bright pink paper and for the stories mothers, their caregivers and designers need to hear.

Designing Motherhood brings to the foreground objects that are not obviously designed, would not usually be included in a design exhibition, but had to be conceived by someone. These objects shape our shared and individual experiences of birth. Belonging to the undervalued domain of care, they are invisibilized despite their impact.

The book is structured around four periods: before …